{"id":1454,"date":"2025-09-05T17:35:27","date_gmt":"2025-09-05T15:35:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.feldarbeit-eb.de\/?p=1454"},"modified":"2025-11-19T10:16:45","modified_gmt":"2025-11-19T09:16:45","slug":"set-boundaries","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.feldarbeit-eb.de\/en\/grenzen-setzen\/","title":{"rendered":"set boundaries"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Setting boundaries is often misunderstood as selfishness. But setting boundaries is the opposite of selfishness. It is remaining true to one's own dignity; it is self-respect.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When Aggi took a step back in the line-up, physically distancing herself from Theo, something surprising happened: <strong>Theo could finally really see her.<\/strong> As long as she had tried to please him, she had become invisible to him. But the moment she said, \u201cThis far and no further,\u201d she became visible again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\"<strong>The border gives you back your dignity.\u201d<\/strong>, I said to her. \u201cAnd she's also giving the relationship a chance. Because a relationship without boundaries isn't a relationship \u2013 it's a merger.\u201d<br>Boundaries are not the problem in relationships \u2013 they are often the solution. They create dignity, clarity and genuine encounters. Those who do not set boundaries lose themselves and the relationship.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Grenzen zu setzen, wird oft als Egoismus missverstanden. Aber eine Grenze zu setzen, ist das Gegenteil von Egoismus. Es ist der eigenen W\u00fcrde treu bleiben, es ist Selbstachtung. Als Aggi in der Aufstellung einen Schritt zur\u00fccktrat, als sie physisch Abstand nahm von Theo, passierte etwas \u00dcberraschendes: Theo konnte sie endlich wirklich sehen. Solange sie versucht [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":580,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_seopress_robots_primary_cat":"none","_seopress_titles_title":"","_seopress_titles_desc":"","_seopress_robots_index":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"class_list":{"0":"post-1454","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-allgemein"},"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.feldarbeit-eb.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1454","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.feldarbeit-eb.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.feldarbeit-eb.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.feldarbeit-eb.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.feldarbeit-eb.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1454"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.feldarbeit-eb.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1454\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.feldarbeit-eb.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/580"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.feldarbeit-eb.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1454"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.feldarbeit-eb.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1454"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}